Liv Merima does not teach love the way most people expect it to be taught. She is not focused on scripts, dating rules, or finding the perfect partner. Instead, her work asks a far more uncomfortable question: what if the one factor shaping every relationship you experience is you?
As the voice behind the Busy Glowing Up podcast and the creator of widely followed personal development programs, Liv has built a global audience by challenging the romantic narratives people grow up believing. Her message is clear and often confronting. Lasting love does not begin with luck, chemistry, or timing. It begins with accountability.
Liv teaches her audience to understand their identity, take ownership of their emotional patterns, and advocate for their needs without abandoning themselves in the process. Through her work accountability becomes the missing skill people were never taught. Not accountability as self blame, but as self awareness. The willingness to examine unconscious beliefs, emotional reactions, and repeating dynamics that quietly shape every connection.
Her teachings focus deeply on shadow work. She helps people identify where the ego avoids truth, where unhealed parts sabotage intimacy, and where patterns repeat under the label of bad luck. Instead of asking why better partners never show up, Liv invites people to ask what within them keeps choosing the same story. Instead of blaming disappointment on others, she brings the focus back to the relationship people have with themselves.
This philosophy did not come from theory alone. Liv learned it through her own lived experience. Born in Ontario, Canada to immigrant parents, she grew up with a clear expectation of success. College, a stable career, and a traditional version of the American Dream. She followed the path she was given, even when it felt deeply misaligned.
By the time she graduated, Liv found herself in what she describes as a quiet crisis. She had done everything right, yet felt profoundly disconnected from herself. No one had told her it was acceptable not to know who she was at twenty. That moment became the starting point of a much deeper journey inward.
For years, she searched for answers outside of herself. Relationships, external validation, and explanations that placed responsibility everywhere except where it truly belonged. Eventually, the realization became impossible to ignore. There was one variable that never changed. Facing that truth was uncomfortable, but it became the moment everything shifted.
As Liv began doing her own shadow work, she stopped waiting to be saved and started upgrading how she showed up for herself. That transformation now sits at the core of her work with others.
Today, Liv Merima reaches a combined audience of more than 180,000 followers across platforms. Her Busy Glowing Up podcast has surpassed 300,000 downloads and earned over 500 five-star reviews, resonating with listeners who are ready for a deeper conversation about self worth, love, and responsibility. You can listen to the Busy Glowing Up podcast on Spotify here: Busy Glowing Up.
She is also the founder of Claim It, a rapidly growing affirmations app designed to turn her teachings into practical, daily breakthroughs. The app reflects her belief that transformation happens through consistent self relationship, not one-time insight. You can explore the Claim It app here: Claim-it custom affirmations
Clients inside her masterminds often share that they experienced breakthroughs they never reached in years of traditional therapy. Not because therapy failed them, but because no one had taught them where to look. Liv’s work reveals blind spots, patterns of self abandonment, and subtle cycles of self sabotage that keep repeating until they are acknowledged.
Liv Merima has positioned herself not just as a leader in the dating space, but as a guide for women reclaiming authority over their lives. Her work reshapes how women see themselves, how they show up in relationships, and what they are willing to accept.
Her message is simple, but powerful. When you become accountable for your inner world, everything you attract begins to change. And that is where real love starts. Follow Liv Merima on Instagram at instagram.com/livmerima for daily insights on self accountability, identity, and conscious relationships.
